Nusrat
Nusrat was a student who already knew
most of the core curriculum. The stuff that he didn’t know, he would pretend he
knew and share anyway. He always had his hand up. When he would answer a
question right, he’d look around nodding at everyone as if to beg for their
applause at his cranial capacities. The other students mostly got tired of his
attitude. Some would probably have rather celebrated his few failures. Around
second semester, Nusrat figured out that dominating his classmates with his
superior intellect wasn’t a good way to make friends. I began to see less of
his hand in the air while Nusrat learned a skill that was brand new to him –
being cool.
He wasn’t the only Muslim in his
classes, but he was the loudest about it. He was the only one who would ever
bring his own ornate rug and ask for a private spot in the classroom to pray
towards Mecca. I always obliged, and he never disturbed anyone with it. When we
got the Friday before Easter off of school, Nusrat asked why. When I told him
it was a Christian holiday, he complained that it wasn’t fair that they don’t
cancel school for his holidays. I gave him a fist bump then and told him,
“Dude, you’re right. I agree that it’s not fair. Your religion is just as valid
as anyone else’s. But maybe we should all just take advantage of an extra day
off anyway.” This answer seemed to be enough as he nodded his approval.
Last week, Nusrat did something I
found very entertaining. He entered the classroom with the biggest smile on his
face, walked up to me, and asked me, “What’s up, CUZ?”
I lost my chill, cracked up, and
responded, “What up, G?” I laughed my way out to the hall to monitor the usual
hallway chaos, but with some quick reflecting, decided to go back in and
revisit that brief encounter with my guy. “Nusrat!” I got his attention, “It’s
hilarious to me that you just called me that, but there’s something you need to
know. Have you ever heard of the Bloods and the Crips?”
“Yeah, I’ve heard of those,” Nusrat
likely bluffed.
“Well then you know that they’re both
dangerous street gangs.” I had him staring wide-eyed at me. I think he was
thrilled to learn about subject matter that was considered taboo in school. I
declaimed to him, “The way Crips greet each other is by calling each other
‘Cuz.’ And when Bloods meet, they might say something like, ‘What up, Blood?’
So when you go around calling someone ‘Cuz’ or ‘Blood,’ it might signify to
someone that you’re involved with one of these gangs. I don’t think you’re
actually in a gang, so I thought you greeting me that way was funny. But you
have to be careful who you say that stuff around, or better yet - maybe avoid
saying those things at all. Does that make sense?”
Nusrat obliged, “Yes, Mr. Harris.” I
sent him to prepare for class.
Luckily, I haven’t seen Nusrat
flashing gang signs, C-walking, or repping any colors since our conversation.
In hindsight, I shouldn’t have called him a G - or at least I should have explained
what that meant too. But there’s one thing I still wonder about: What was
Nusrat studying to gain this new vocabulary anyway?
Jake,
ReplyDeleteAs a middle schooler who only read big words and when I said them out loud mispronounced them, I can sympathize with Nusrat. I can imagine that Nusrat brightens up the classroom community and always invokes an internal chuckle. Your writing captured his spirit and personality in this genre reflection and I feel that I am with you in this moment. I also would love to know where Nusrat is learning this new vocabulary. If you find out, let us know! Thank you for sharing your writing. - Payton
Jake,
ReplyDeleteI think this piece of yours has been the most hilarious of them all. You have a real knack for writing humorously. We all have had students talk about more taboo topics and we do not always get the chance to discuss the content of those taboo topics seriously. I think your piece here provides a great deal of insight on how to do it properly, rather than just immediately shutting down these topics. Thank you so much for sharing this.
Jake,
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing such a creative, humorous and self-reflective piece of writing with us. I so enjoy your ability to humorously navigate the wild situations you find yourself in, but my chief joy comes from seeing your heart for your students. I can always sense your deeper care for the social outcast, the wild card, the quiet struggler. You value them all--not for their academic potential, but for exactly who they are: perfectly imperfect. You are both a master writer and a master teacher. Thank you for all of the beautiful writing you have given us this semester. It's truly been an honor to walk this Core IV path alongside you.
From Caleb:
ReplyDeleteHi Jake!
I’m so glad that you chose a moment like this to share with us for your reflection. Your writing not only shows how positive you are in reinforcing your students’ genuine identities, but also your down-to-earth ability to bring learning into their zone at their level, without them feeling put down or like your squelching their true selves. It’s little subtle moments like this throughout the school year that I have really begun to appreciate—in my own classroom and in other’s. It seems like you’re a real role model for many—if not all—of your students, Jake! Thanks again!
-Caleb